What if someone said "**** you" to you?

Re: What if someone said "[****][****][****][****] you" to you?

an older member, who knows the rules by now would recieve a warning, and their post would be deleted. if they were in an argument or debate that got a bit heated or something, i would ban them for a day to give them a chance to calm down. if they carried on doing it after this they will be banned.

 

Re: What if someone said "[****][****][****][****] you" to you?

I'd cry and fall to pieces.

 

Re: What if someone said "[****][****][****][****] you" to you?

I did have a member say just that when i merged some of his posts as he did not need three all about the same event.

He was instantly banned as i feel if other members see him get away with it then it would only open the floodgates.

 

Re: What if someone said "[****][****][****][****] you" to you?

I agree that this person should deserve a ban in most cases, but I'm not so sure why he said this. Do you know why?

 

Re: What if someone said "[****][****][****][****] you" to you?

Example just happened:

 

Re: What if someone said "[****][****][****][****] you" to you?

LMAO!!! That's an awesome rebuttal!! xD I should use that.

 

Re: What if someone said "[****][****][****][****] you" to you?

Yeah, wouldn't you, huh?

The person told me this as soon as they saw the thread:

Yep, ily2.

 

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i think a cooling off period would be in order for something like this again i would handle it case to case basis....with a ban being the last option i have had to ban a user in the past who was a long standing member but the ban went into effect only post all other mediums of resolving the issue failed.

 

I'd either rofl or say [****][****][****][****] you too budday

don't take yourself too seriously

 

The member would be banned without any hesitation. It's pretty much my house, my rules and you are the guest.

 

I guess that member retention isn't on your list of priorities.

 

It's a very tight knit support forum, so when a member has that kind of attitude they really are not worth keeping around. If they do that to me, they will do that to others on the board and I can't tolerate that.

 

Me too.

Occasionally, for learning purposes, I will go to AA member sites. It gives me added perspective when they type things on AA. Your 2 sites are quite different in their intent.

 

Not knowing what lead up to the language, i would just ignore the post and move on. Alot of times, things like this will pass. The member may have had a bad day, something tragic may have happened in their lives, etc.....Sometimes people feel pushed into a corner and strike out with language like this, not really meaning what they said. Only to then feel remorse, but the admin over reacted and struck down a lifetime ban.